Men: how to find an amazing woman using pheromone products 

Hello, it's Matt Cook here.

You may have heard of me. I have coached over 80, 000 men for the past number of years. On health and sex issues.

I'm a health researcher. I have helped countless men. Meet women and have wonderful relationships. I have some stuff I've done that's on YouTube and podcasts and interviews.

I've been on many different interviews and websites and written a number of books. My latest book is called Masculine Maximizer. It's fabulous. It's about how a man can actually increase his material and sexual plenty and abundance using his masculinity. It's absolutely amazing.

It's very actionable, very specific. That's what I do. Everything I do is like very specific and actionable. Not a bunch of just vague ideas, to run something called the Green Door Society and something else before that. We've helped, thousands of people get together, men and women getting together.

And I'll just tell you that although I understand that some men want casual hookups. My core in our beliefs in our business is for long term relationships where people are thrilled with each other and together for Decades, rest of their life, and I think that this comes from the fact that my parents were divorced when I was like, born, literally I was born and my dad decided he had enough.

I don't know the real story completely because I was a baby, but I don't want anyone to go through all of the trauma that I went through and my mother went through and my father probably went through it too. I don't want them, and more than that, I find that, What we need is committed relationships, and there are things in our world right now, sexual triggers, and media, and health treatments, that actually are very destructive and ruinous.

That's why you see more and more people just wanting to be alone. But let me just tell you something. Being alone is not really very good. Being with somebody that you love and she loves you, that is really fantastic. That is indescribable. Don't let anybody tell you that you're just as happy by yourself, or even happier by yourself.

If you're happier by yourself, Just shut this video off. You don't need it. The whole point of this is, those are my values. So I'm just being very blunt with you. Because everything that we do, although it seems like it's about attraction and sex, it is in a way. But it really is in a, way to be the foundation, the underpinnings of a whole amazing relationship with all the wonderful things that entails.

Could be with children or without children, let's hope you have children. I have children. I love my children. Just so happy that I have children, but whichever having a relationship is like amazing with the simple hacks I'm going to show you, okay? Because the way most people do it and the way they're telling you to do it is totally God awful wrong.

Okay? First of all, Before I really get into all this, I want you to make sure that you understand the role of your attraction cologne. The role of your attraction cologne is not to you're going to put it on and it's like this automatic thing that women get a whiff of and they want to drop their panties and they want you to do the thing.

Not really. First of all, the attraction cologne really works well with your enjoyment. Enjoying the a cologne, enjoying the way your face feels, or using the attraction serum that's use every morning and the replenisher at night, enjoying the body. All those things, that enjoyment is the core.

The foundation required for anything else. If you don't like it, let me know because we have other attraction clones of other types that you will like. And these are much, much higher quality than what you're going to get in an apartment store. First of all, they have Civette, Ambergris, Castoreum. Dear Musk Accords.

They have high quality ingredients. They're very expensive to make. We make them right here in Fenton, Missouri, which is outside of St. Louis, Missouri. We have American workers. We're all supervised. Company run by a combat veteran of two wars. We're, totally believe in families. We believe in men and women having the most pleasure with each other as opposed to by themselves.

That's my core belief of everything. And if you enjoy the scent, and you enjoy the feel on your face of the Attraction Serum and the Replenisher, and you feel really good, that's Basically, the most important thing you can do to start with. The two other things you need to do, okay, once you've been in enjoyment, are three things, three steps.

You need opportunities to meet women. You need to use the woman code, which I'm going to show you, which is going to blow you away and unlock the women around you, and you need to then use the simple method of escalating into the relationships. They say that a lot of men just want, one thing, but that's not true.

If it's true, if you just want one thing, then this isn't going to be for you. This is really for men that they want everything, not just one thing. They want everything. I do it in my relationship twice a day, and I've been together almost 40 years. I just couldn't tell you how much happiness I have every day in my life.

And that's a completely, It's an attainable thing for you. You could be doing it twice a day as well. Even 40 years from now. Every day in between. It's unbelievable abundance that is available here for you. Enjoy the Attraction Clone, Enjoy the Serum Attraction Serum and the Replenisher and how you feel and all that.

Okay, three things. Opportunities to meet women. You need to have the Women Code, which I'm going to show you, and Escalation. Okay. Let's talk about opportunities. The best opportunity that I have found to meet women is, in almost every place, is going to be taking either ballroom or salsa dance lessons.

Ballroom or salsa dance lessons. Both of those are partner dances. They involve you holding hands, looking into each other's eyes, eye contact. If you do ballroom, there's different dances. One of them would be a tango. You can learn ballroom tango. And you're holding hands and you're looking into each other's eyes.

There's eye contact and the touch. And plus it's mostly girls in those classes. It's a great place for guys. There, there's always a thing that develops where you meet for coffee afterwards. Part of a little group. Then you can ask a girl out. It's fantastic. Plus, you get much more confident in yourself.

Maybe you know nothing about dancing. You have two left feet. Doesn't matter because all you have to do is try. You'll get better at it. And you'll enjoy it. And you'll be touching and doing eye contact and physical things. It's phenomenal. That's the best thing. Either there's line dancing and other styles, but the ones I recommend are salsa, or what they call Latin, which could be salsa, machada, merengue, and so forth.

But Let's call it Latin, or salsa, and the other one would be ballroom. I don't recommend line dancing, particularly. These are the ones where there's a lot of partners and you switch partners all the time. And there's usually more girls than guys. Okay, there's other opportunities to meet women, and those would be in anything that you enjoy doing, even if you didn't meet somebody.

Because your enjoyment of it is going to mean that you can keep doing it. Photography is a good one. Cycling is a good one, where you get together with a group and you go bicycling and then you have lunch or whatever afterwards hiking, physical things, outdoor things, hobby things, okay, those are the things you're going to want for opportunities, I'm not even talking about clubs I personally never could tolerate clubs, never good at clubs, you might be good at clubs, I'm assuming that, I think that's a really bad place to meet people.

You're going to have opportunities to meet women. Now, you're going to use the woman code that unlocks her. Then, you're going to escalate into relationships. We talked about opportunities to meet women. You've got to have opportunities. Okay? If you're going to find an amazing woman that you just can't you each cannot get enough of each other.

That means that you're going to have to become good at meeting women. Dating. Dating for men is a practice, something you can get better at by doing it. So it's good if you are going to be dating to have some like throwaways, like they're not really super attractive at all, they're overweight, or they're not your type, because then you can use your skills and get better.

I'm not saying you should go out with a bunch of dogs, I'm just saying that it's okay to go out with women that aren't. Because you'll get better at dating that way and you need to get experience and you need to practice. Just like in sports, they don't practice with a big game. They practice, at home.

Drills and things like that and practice games and all that you need to practice dating is a skill You need to get good at it and you get good at it by doing it a bunch Basically, so you need options meet women and then you can go out on dates use the woman code It's gonna help you get dates and then escalate.

Okay. So what do I mean by the woman code? So three steps woman code really several making her feel good around you first up She has to feel good around you The only reason that we ever will have a girlfriend and a girl will have a boyfriend, the only reason is that they feel better with each other than they would separately.

If you feel good around somebody, that's the person for you. If you feel great around them, and she feels great around you, You've got something really good. It's all about, very simple, feeling good around the other person. Smiling does that, eye contact. Eye contact is really important. Being quiet and letting her talk and not interrupting her, asking her questions, getting her talking.

Really, being the strong, silent type is much, much more attractive to women than being the talkative one, honestly. Now, Making her feel good around you and getting her turned on. How do you get a woman turned on? I don't mean that she's literally dripping wet, and wanting to pull you into her. I just mean a little bit turned on.

Thinking about sex, which is women don't think about sex as often as men, but they do think about it a lot. And so you use double entendres. You can use language that you know, you're talking about one thing while you're really talking about sex. You can do this very artfully and subtly and she'll totally get it.

That's all it is, just so she's thinking about sex with you, that's all, basically. And you get better and better at this as you practice. And the third part of it is asking her, To help you. And asking for help is a great way of getting someone more connected to you. You could ask her to help you remember a movie title that you're trying to remember, or an actor you're trying to remember, a piece of trivia, or something more important to you.

Maybe you need help with a roommate situation, advice. Women will love you about this. Okay, love it. Give you advice. Asking for help is the key. What happens is, men relate to women a lot of times how they relate to their mothers in some way. Women relate to men somewhat reminiscent of how they related to their fathers.

And in the home the woman would be rewarded for helping out, and women have grown Both culturally and genetically to want to help. So if you ask her for help and advice is like the most powerful way you can ask for help. Women will love you for it and you'll be deepening the relationship right there.

And then ask her out on a date. It is a date, okay? Make it clear it is a date. It's not, hey let's hang out together. That's what little kids, teenagers do. I would like to go on a date with you, a romantic date. That's what it's about. Romance. Don't ever undersell that aspect of it. It's a date.

It's romance. It's, you hope to get to know each other, to see if you have a future as a couple together. That's, if it comes to that's the explanation. So that is the Women Code. Make your figure around you, getting a little turned on through conversation, double entendre, acting like you're only, you're talking about one thing when you're really talking about sex and asking her for help or advice.

Okay. Now, and ask her out and go out with her. Now, on a date, on dates. Most important thing you can do is to get physical very quickly, as quickly as you can. So even if you're, like the worst date would be a dinner date where you sit across from each other. Dinners are expensive. There's all these things that could go wrong.

The waiter could be a jerk. There's all kinds of problems with dinner dates. I don't recommend dinner dates. I just think a drink date is really good. I'm not gonna get, there's a lot of things I can talk about dating, but, what I'm just gonna say here is get physical as quickly as possible. Now, she has already been picking up your pheromone.

clone, your attraction clone. She's, you see your beautiful, your wonderful face and you're, just lighting her up inside in all these different areas of her body and brain already. You don't have to worry about it. You can just get close to her when you ask her out and that's all you have to do.

It's gonna do the work for you. One of the things that I want to mention before we talk about the date, I'm getting physical as quickly as possible. Want to mention is

hidden signals. Women a lot of times will give signals that they're interested in you and they want you to talk to. She wants you to talk to her and ask her out and those signals, can be a way she toss her hair, looks at you another half second longer than would be normally acceptable. Just what, her behavior when she tries to engage in conversation with you.

She pauses when she's near your cubicle, whatever it happens to be. There's always these signals, okay, and that's when you want to engage, make her feel good around you, getting her turned on, and ask her for help or advice, okay? Hidden signals are a big thing and we find many more hidden signals with, when you're wearing the attraction cologne and you have the attraction serum and you're using replenisher at night and body wash and you're really into this, you get a lot more hidden signals.

But you may not get any hidden signals at the beginning. The hidden signals take time to learn how to identify and detect. Notice, now I notice them all the time. I get hit on all the time, and I didn't even realize it before. I'm a married guy, I'm not interested in other people, but other women are always approaching me and giving me hidden signals.

My wife hates it, but that's the way it is. Women want a married guy. Pick up those hidden signals, make her feel good around you, get her turned on. Ask her for help or advice, at the date. Don't sit on the other side of her, sit next to her, get physical as quickly as possible. When should you aim for a kiss, like in the first two or three minutes?

You can say, oh my gosh, I really, you don't even have to talk about it. Talking is the enemy here. You can just reach in. Hey, I really like you. And you can reach in and kiss her. Now, at the last minute, she may turn her head, so she gives you the cheek, or push you away, That's true.

Here's how you deal with that. All you do is completely ignore it and you continue talking. You have no bad feeling, you have no anger, you have not a trace of irritation. It's completely fine. That's how a man handles that. Then, five minutes later, you reach in and try it again. This time she might actually kiss you.

But if you've tried three or four times and you're good natured and you just completely just continue on with the date, that's all you have to do. If you do that, you get better at that, you're going to have tremendous romantic success. Most men don't go for the physical enough, and when they do try to kiss her and she doesn't want to be kissed at that moment, they get upset.

Women are very threatened by a man who's angry, because men are bigger than women, are stronger than women, and they can do bad things to women. So you never want to, you never want to show her anger. Or irritation even for that, because this is your time to show what an amazing man you are. How you can prevail over bad stuff that happens.

And if a woman pushes you away or rejects you, it is a bad thing that happens. And if you're just fine with it and you keep going and there's no irritation, she's going, Oh, this guy is quality. He can handle shit. I like this guy. So you're actually going to increase the attraction. But once you're kissing, aim for hugs and kisses you definitely do not, here's the thing, you don't want to get right into bed and do the thing.

Now you may want to, I'm not saying you shouldn't, as a, but I'm saying if you want a relationship, my whole goal with you remember, my whole value system is around long term, wonderful, committed relationships where you're just so into each other you can't get enough of each other. That's the goal. In that case you want to have a foundation.

And that requires building oxytocin. Oxytocin is a love hormone that increases between two people. And there's activities that increase oxytocin, like cuddling, kissing, hugging, looking into each other's eyes, stroking each other, holding hands. These are all things that build oxytocin. The worst thing you can do is go right to the thing itself, the deed, right away, because what that does is it will lower any oxytocin that may be there.

Already be present and there's a lot of fallout from that afterwards There's drama and there's all these things that happen within a week or even up to a week or two after the climax and of course, it's wonderful, but You're looking for something that's gonna last it's gonna mean much better than you've ever dreamed possible What you want to do is you want to do lots of what they used to call petting Short of the act itself.

Teasy stuff, hugging, kissing, and the best thing you can do is making out, sleeping together without doing the deed. And you can tell her, I want to go a little slow because I really like you. I want to see if we have something that could develop into something really good. And that's why I don't want to jump into bed with you.

Now you do, you should go into bed with her, but not actually do the thing. You should have a rule like that for two weeks. Ideally, it's two weeks. At that point, you're both going to be bursting at the seams for each other, and you'll just be so into each other because your oxytocin is high.

And at that point, you've launched what could be an amazingly fabulous successful relationship. Keep using the attraction cologne. Keep using the serum and the replenisher. That's going to, over time, make you more and more keeping you young, keeping you look good. The longer you use it, the better it's going to be for you.

So I really suggest that you continue with that because, and we continue to make better formulations and better ways of doing it. So you'll keep enjoying that. So don't stop using them. That's my how to get a great woman. I have a lot more that I'll be saying, but this will get you started.