Women: how to use pheromones to have the man of your dreams
Hello there, it's Matt Cook here, and in this article I am showing you how to find the man of your dreams, "the one", using pheromones.
You may not be familiar with me or who I am. I have had over 80, 000 students, men, that have been through my various health and sex programs.
I've also worked with thousands of women over the years, and I have some very good friends that have spent years teaching me about women. I still don't know anything. But who does?
I am good about figuring out how a woman, you, can land an amazing man using pheromones.
Now I just wanted you to know that I have a tremendous amount of experience working with men and dating. I've fixed countless men up with countless women.
Where we used to run something called the Green Door Society.
We have had something to connect men and women before that.
We've been working in this area for many years.
And so what I'm going to tell you is really nothing that I came up with.
I'm not smart enough. All it is just stuff that works based on what I have seen from other people and what they've taught me that I can just pass on to you.
Okay? So first of all, when you're wearing a perfume of any kind and you're wearing a, something like our #MakeUpFree Attraction Serum or the Replenisher the serum is designed to go on in the morning.
Whether you wear makeup or no makeup or little makeup, I hope you wear very little or no makeup.
Believe it or not, men really prefer natural women, but whatever it is designed, so you can be makeup free if you want, or a small amount of makeup or some amount that you're comfortable with, maybe less and less so whether you're on the colognes the perfumes, the replenisher, the serums, and all the things we have.
First thing is to enjoy.
Your enjoyment of them is key.
You've got to love them. Now, why should you love them? The perfumes are loaded with genuine animalic accords. Civet, ambergris, castoreum, deermusk.
These accords have been used for thousands of years and men just love them on a woman. You will love them.
Plus, the perfumes are incredibly high end, maybe compared to what you're used to.
These could be three or four hundred dollar niche perfumes.
But, we make them here in St. Louis, Missouri, outside of St. Louis, a place called Fenton.
And they're American made we're operated with the management of a veteran, who is actually a combat veteran in, in, in two different combat areas, and all I'm telling you is that we are loving family.
We love family and we love our country. We believe there is no country better than America, and we believe in the values of having a wonderful loving relationship with a man that lasts for life.
I've been married almost 40 years. So I practice what I preach. I'm in my 60s and run 10K races barefoot and have no need for regular doctor visits.
I'm healthy and I'm happy. My wife says I'm sexy. LOL.
We love what we're doing and the quality of the ingredients is incredible.
So you'll enjoy them.
And sometimes you don't necessarily really love a perfume when you first start to wear it, but I find that if you wear it over a period of time, you get to really love it.
But if you don't love it, send it back.
We'll get you something you do love.
I don't want you ever to have something you don't like.
Happy to do an exchange.
Key point is you're happy.
But you should love it and you're using a very clean product. Y
ou're using a very clean product. These all don't have anything bad in them. We're super careful.
And the key thing:
Enjoy the experience of the perfume, of the sensual feeling of the serum and the replenisher and all the rest.
Okay? That's key.
It comes through. If you enjoy your products, it shines through to any man or woman. They can tell. It makes you more radiant and joyful when you are enjoying your perfume and the feel of the serum and replenisher.
So now, there are three steps.
Number one is, you need opportunities to meet men, and you can find those activities.
When you meet men, you just want to be close to them and let the personality you have shine through, let your beauty, the, men love women.
I don't care if a woman is a, is fat or thin, blonde, men love women, okay?
Men love women. Just find some opportunities to meet men.
My favorite opportunities to meet men are things that you enjoy doing. Anyway, whether you meet a man or not. A good one would be salsa dancing or ballroom dancing. Maybe you're not a good dancer or you don't know how to dance.
That's perfect. You can actually take those classes. There's not a lot of men, but there are some. There's a lot of different things you can do. Photography, meet up groups, there's all sorts of ways to meet. to meet men other than going to bars. And you can also just hang out with men and with the with the attraction perfume that, that you're wearing and everything you're doing you're, you shine through.
And if you're within a couple feet of a man and you're talking to him, he's going to start picking up on those. So you need the opportunities to meet men and get close. Then you need what I'm going to call the man code. Very simple method unlocking his interest. Very simple. And I'm going to show you how to continue keeping his interest so that you and he are so into each other.
Let me just tell you something. The third step, by the way, is escalating into this. So it's opportunities to meet men, using the man code, escalation. Let me just tell you. I have. Basically discovered a hack in our brains, and I have to thank Monia Robinson for this, and her late husband, Gary who helped me figure this out, maybe 14 years ago, and this is why I'm doing what I'm doing, because I want to bring more men and women together.
I want to have more women.
Millions of couples as a result of my work and I think I have started to do that with the groundswell of support We've had with our 80, 000 men that I've been through our programs and all the women they know and all of that I have a incredibly close relationship with my wife We just are so in love with each other even after 40 years, maybe more than ever really Now I can tell you that she is the most amazing woman in the world that there's nobody like her That is all true to me But I recognize That other people may not feel that way because it's a subjective thing, right?
So here's the thing. You can use this simple hack and you can be so into each other that your life becomes a complete joy. No arguments, no drama. Smoother than you've ever even dreamed possible. Believe that can happen and that will happen. We'll get there. But opportunities, man code, escalating. Okay? So right now in this video I'm just going to talk about how The man code and then I'll make a talk about the rest some other time.
The man code has three simple steps. Okay. The first step is making him feel good around you. That is why men and women are together. We feel good around somebody. That's why we like them. The whole point of relationships is feeling good around the other person. If you feel really wonderful around somebody, that's a win.
That's what life is about. There's nothing greater than that really. So how do you do that? You wear your Attraction, perfume and the serum, you use a replenisher at night, use little or no makeup. I suggest you just use highlight makeup, just a small amount, to cover something up that may not be so great.
I wouldn't do a full face, I would do something that doesn't look like you're wearing makeup, that's the point. Smiling. Eye contact. You know how to be sexy. You already are sexy. Of course you know how to be sexy. Getting a little turned on. You can do that with just bantering and talking. Men are easily and quickly turned on.
I can just tell you, I'm turned on numerous times during the day to some degree. It's just how men are built. We're built to get immediately turned on. You can Talk about something with a double entendre. Just smile, present who you are. He'll be turned on. He'll like you, okay? Now, the third part of the man code.
Making him feel good around you. Getting him a little turned on. Third part, and I don't mean that he's got a big tent in his pants, okay? I'm just saying, just, he's thinking about you and sex. Which is not a difficult thing to get a guy to be thinking about. The third part of the man code. Is, what do men really love to do?
They love helping a woman. I don't mean that they love helping you move or they love helping you by putting on a new roof. I'm not talking about explaining men. I'm not talking about getting free stuff. I'm just talking about some simple thing you can ask him for help. If he helps you, he feels really good about you.
It could be like trying to remember the name of a movie that you remember, or that's a really good one. Trying to remember something is really good because it gets you in a conversation and you start learning about each other's values and experiences. Just ask for help. That's it. And as you go along, if you remember this, it always works, even when you're in Ten years later, you've been with a guy for ten years and you just love each other.
It's still good to ask him for help and to thank him and praise him and reward him for helping you. You know what I mean. That's what men relate to. The last part of what I want to talk about, the long term. You should still be wearing and using your Attraction Perfume and the Serum and the Replenisher, you should be doing all that because that's going to help you stay young.
It's going to help you look younger. It's going to help you and we're continually improving and tweaking these formulas and making them better. There's nothing unpronounceable or weird in anything. These are so much better than anything you're going to buy anywhere else, really. And they make a big difference in how you look and the longer you use them, the better that you're going to look.
What I found is, don't get right away into this, okay? Don't. Better to tease, to get him turned on, to promise, to go slow. And tell him I want to go slow. Now how do I, what do I mean by going slow? I don't mean six months going slow. Oh, I'm not going to let you put it in for six months. I'm talking about third or fourth date, go slow.
And maybe what you do is, I'd like to sleep together, but not actually have sex. And I know I'm gonna be really tempted, but let's try that. Because it, it gets to know each other better. If you actually snuggle together, And men will go for this, believe me, they all will go for this. They're gonna get aroused.
It doesn't mean they have to do anything with it, right? Just cause a man, Is ready to go. Doesn't mean that you have to go. But some stimulation, some hugging and kissing and smelling each other. The scent of each other. What they call the major histocompatibility complex. We all have a these proteins and things that make us give us a signature, a chemical signature.
That you will love his, he will love yours. That's to do with smell and taste, really. And you do that a time or two and you delay the putting it in. For even a couple weeks, if you do that, if you're huggy and kissy and snuggly and you can do this naked or with clothes on or under, it doesn't matter.
The more you do this, the more you're going to be into each other. This is really what helps provide the proper foundation for a very long term relationship that is, just keeps giving and it's just fantastic. That's the key to the whole thing is deferring. That part. And I also mean don't go down on him.
Don't, I mean don't conclude any kind of act. Except touching and a little bit of teasing and mostly cuddling, snuggling, kissing, making out. What they used to call petting. Look it up. This is what builds desire. The moment you just get together with some guy and he sticks it in, it's not because he's a bad person, but, we all know, a man loses interest immediately after the act.
It has to recharge and regenerate. Young men can do it again, but they're not as interested the second or third time. And what happens is there's a cycle that occurs, Anywhere all the way up to 7 to 14 days after that, where there's some instability in a relationship, where there's some desire to look at other people and consider other partners as better than your partner.
So if you set the scene by going slow and getting very physical, but not having a connection. Actual act. You're going to be much, much more into each other, and you're going to be setting things up for them much, much better. Now, if the man doesn't want to do that, he's probably the wrong man for you.
You want a guy that's into that. Maybe he wasn't before, but you suggest and you explain, I'd like to go slow, I'd like to have several weeks, I'd like to be physically with you and everything, but I just don't want to actually, do the thing quite yet. You say, Oh, that's new. I haven't heard that one before.
I'll try it. And he'll love it. And you'll love it. And it's just, it sets the scene because what it does is, there's a hormone called oxytocin, which is an incredibly powerful hormone of love and trust. And this builds with somebody when you're with them. But contrary to what they tell you after the act is done, when you're with them, fires his wad, and you have your your wave that you go through.
There's a lot less interest in each other for a while, and there's a lot more drama. And there's, and people don't realize this and this is a real, doesn't mean you shouldn't do that. You should do lots of it. I do it twice a day. Have for years. It just means you want to set the foundation up. by building oxytocin.
So when you do that act, it furthers relationship. It's not only fun and so enjoyable, it's better than you've ever even dreamed of by the time you actually do that. I'm just talking about several weeks, ideally. Man will do this, they will do anything you ask. He'll do whatever you ask him to do if he's the right man.
He'll love to, because he wants to please you. I'm not going to get all Freudian on you, but, I want you to remember something. This is obviously very well known. That women will relate to men, it's connected to how they related to their fathers. Men connect with their girl girlfriend or what, somewhat similar to how they were with their mother.
The point is that a man wants to be a good man. He has that in him. He wants to be good. He wants to please you. And the more you can ask him something and then he does it and you're really happy and he pleases you, the closer he feels to you. That's the key to men. That's the man code. And if you just, give him a lot of stimulation and teasing short of the conclusion, and you explain, it's actually amazingly entertaining and exciting for a man.
And it will be for you, and ultimately it will build a very wonderful relationship. Where you'll be together for years and you'll be soulmates. This is how you do it. These are the hacks. I'll have more to say in the future, but I wanted to get this out there for you to enjoy. know how to use this pheromone perfume.
My values and our values of company is we believe in relationships and families. We believe in sex and attraction. We think that it's fantastic, not necessarily with marriage, but a committed relationship for sure. And I'd like to see you have a very successful partnership. You and somebody, he's a team and you're happy ever after.
That's what I want for you. That's what this is all about.